Everyone seems interested to hear a little more about my trip to Medellin, and I’m happy to oblige.

You can also check out my travel notes from the trip at Visiting Medellin, Colombia, which includes all of my photos. I’ve also added a travel page, which will include more travel notes from previous trips and for my upcoming trip to India!

I’ve had fun telling these three stories to friends and family since I’ve been back so I decided to do a video to share them with you.

I call these stories:

  1. Know Your Numbers
  2. The Street Skirmish, and
  3. I Am Not a Drug Mule!

The video is almost 8 minutes long, which I know is an eternity for a video, but I still think you’ll enjoy it!

I’ll work on keeping the next video a little shorter, and I’m planning to pick up a dedicated video camera (maybe a Flip?) for my trip to India. Recommendations appreciated!

If you have any questions about the trip, please feel free to ask in the comments. I’m happy to answer anything about the sites, the people, costs, flight times, etc.

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As we rounded a bend on the road somewhere between Medellin and Santa Fe de Anitoquia, I saw what looked like dead bodies sitting propped up against a fence on the side of the road.

I knew that there are some areas of Colombia that are still ripe with civil conflict, but everything I’d heard said that those areas are high in the mountains. We were deep in the Aburra Valley. Also, the land outside of quaint Santa Fe is full of weekend fincas (farms) of the well to do escaping the crowds of Medellin.

As we got closer it became clear that these dolls were only made to look like people. My guide Mauricio quickly explained that these people-sized dolls sold along the road are part of a new year’s tradition. They’re filled with fireworks. Late on new year’s eve, to welcome the new year, the clothing they wear is lit on fire setting off all the fireworks inside.

We saw this doomed man propped up in a hotel lobby in Santa Fe. I’m not sure whether this particular doll was filled with explosives, but it didn’t stop us from taking a picture with him!

His sign reads:”Esta muriendo el 2010!!! Ya va a nacer el nuevo año!!! Viva el 2011!!!” Which means in English, “2010 is dying!!! Now the new year is going to be born!!! Live 2011!!!”

Why exactly are these dolls dressed like people? Why are they sacrificed to give birth to the new year? I still feel like some of this odd tradition was lost in translation, but either way, who doesn’t love celebrating with some fireworks?!

Me, Mauricio & The Explosive Man

Wishing you a wonderful 2011 that’s ablaze with joy and adventure!

Always,
Angela

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“Generally speaking, if you want to know who you really are as distinct from whom you like to think you are, keep an eye on where your feet take you.” – Frederick Buechner

Where Are My Feet Taking Me?

It was this sentiment that got me thinking… Since my visa for India didn’t arrive in time for my scheduled trip in December, through no fault of my own, I wouldn’t be traveling out of the country in 2010. I typically only make one big trip a year based on my work schedule, and I definitely didn’t want to let any opportunity for international travel get away.

Especially since I like to think of myself as a well traveled person who isn’t afraid to venture off the beaten path.

Thinking back over my trips abroad made me realize that I wasn’t earning the title I had bestowed upon myself. Italy and Argentina definitely aren’t off the beaten path. Don’t get me wrong, they were awesome trips that I’m thankful to have taken, but I realized that it was time to either live up to the title or change my tune.

Off the Beaten Path Alone

This kind of last minute trip meant I would be traveling alone. All my usual travel buddies were busy, and I was leaving right after the Christmas holiday. I’ve traveled for work alone many, many times, and early this year I went on a yoga retreat by myself, but this was different. This would be my first solo trip abroad.

Some recent travel reports (written by women) about Colombia’s status as an up-and-coming tourist destination and about its increasing safety peaked my interest. Then I stumbled across the fact that American Airlines runs direct flights from Miami to Medellin. The flight is only three hours long, and I could fly first class for a minimal amount of frequent flyer miles. Plus, Medellin is currently on Eastern time*, so no jet lag!

While I was sold on visiting Colombia someday, I have to admit that I had reservations at the last minute. I questioned whether now was the right time or whether I was trying to squeeze too much into the end of the year. I left before some of my family after Christmas, and I was nervous about the unknown nature of the destination. Europe I know. South America, not so much.

Plenty of people looked at me like I was crazy when they heard about the trip, and I let their doubts become my own. In the end, I pushed all doubts aside and decided to go now by myself, simply because I could.  The goal of the trip was to live up to the ideal I’d set for myself, to see a new country, and to push the boundaries of my comfort zone. Mission accomplished.

More About Colombia Soon

By the time you read this, I’ll be somewhere over the Caribbean headed back to the States or on a layover in Miami. I’m so excited to share some pictures and more about the trip over the next couple of weeks. Look out for a funny and slightly morbid tradition they have in Medellin to welcome the new year!

*I’ve been told that Colombia doesn’t observe daylight savings so sometimes they’re on Central time and sometimes Eastern.

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The huge selection of items for sale on Amazon is fertile ground for the weird and thought provoking. As I was searching for a couple of Christmas gifts for my super smart nephews who love to read, I came across a book called Fifty Famous Stories Retold that peaked my interest.

It retells the stories of legendary people of history, in about 2-3 pages each, and apparently in a way that will capture a kid’s imagination.

It sounds exactly like the kind of book I would enjoy buying for the kids in my life – a little quirky and definitely educational.

“Beginning with stories of heroes from British history, including King Alfred and the Cakes, King Canute on the Seashore, and Bruce and the Spider, the book moves on to tales of other lands. From Ancient Greece come stories of The Brave Three Hundred, Alexander and Bucepahlus, and Diogenes the Wise Man. Introducing the history of Rome are the Story of Cincinnatus, Horatius at the Bridge, and Julius Caesar. The stories of William Tell, Arnold Winkelried, and Robin Hood impart a bit of the flavor of the Middle Ages. Rounding out the collection are a number of timeless tales that show heroes in action: Damon and Pythias, The Sword of Damocles, Picciola, and The King and His Hawk.” About the book from Amazon.

A reviewer’s comment about the book got me thinking and kept me thinking long after I closed the browser. ’Practical shopper’ suggested that the book might not be good inspiration for young girls because the stories are all about men (see comment below). While I was shopping at the time for two little boys, I’m a feminist, I have a niece, and I’m definitely invested in seeing that girls do big things.

It just never occurred to me that a young girl, around the ages of 6-10 years old, would look at stories and legends like these and not be able to enjoy or identify with the quest because the stories featured heroes instead of heroines.

As girls get older and look more concretely at the what, when, and how of accomplishing various goals and adventures, I understand the value of a female role model. There are typically only a couple (maybe a few) of us in senior management at any given company, mine included.

But, isn’t this a little early? Should we be teaching kids at this point in life that there are limitations at all? Who were your heroes or heroines growing up?

Note: My nephews are only 4 and 2 years old so this book is still a little ahead of them! I have not read and did not purchase this book, but it did peak my interest and brought up a good question!

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I’m so excited today to do my first giveaway! Hopefully you are equally excited to hear about it. As you can probably guess from the picture above, there will be 3 winners and each person will get a copy of one of the three books pictured as their prize.

Why These Books?

As Pablo Picasso said, “art washes away from the soul the dust of everyday life.” I’ve come to believe that living a good life is much more of an art, than an exact science, and more than others I’ve read over the past year these books have influenced the way I think and helped me to blow the dust off my life.

1) The Art of Nonconformity is a reminder to think for yourself about how you live, work and travel instead of simply following the crowd, and it provides some actionable ideas about how to do just that.  And, the book is even signed by the author Chris Guillebeau from his visit to Dallas!

“At some point, though, we each have to take responsibility for ourselves even if no one ever taught us to think about what we want. The lack of understanding and self-awareness harms us more than anyone else. It holds us back from greatness and keeps us living unremarkable lives. To break out of the sleepwalking pattern, we have to define what we want and then find a way to make it happen.”

2) The Art of Possibility is the book I wish I could have written. It outlines 12 simple practices – like “It’s All Invented,” “Leading from Any Chair,” and my favorite “Rule Number 6″ – using metaphors and stories along the way.  It reads almost like a collection of fables. While the practices are simple and easily remembered, they’re not necessarily easy.

“Our premise is that many of the circumstances that seem to block us in our daily lives may only appear to do so based on a framework of assumptions we carry with us. Draw a different frame around the same set of circumstances and new pathways come into view. Find the right framework and extraordinary accomplishment becomes an everyday experience.”

The book uses “the metaphor of music, and relies on all the arts. Art, after all, is about rearranging us, creating surprising juxtapositions, emotional openings, startling presences, flight paths to the eternal.” I’m certain Picasso would agree.

3) The Art of Travel is an introspective investigation of our journeys – why we travel and how we could do it a little better – with a dose of dry British humor for good measure.

“Journeys are the midwives of thought. Few places are more conducive to internal conversations than moving planes, ships or trains. There is an almost quaint correlation between what is before our eyes and the thoughts we are able to have in our heads…”

“There is psychological pleasure in [a plane's] takeoff, too, for the swiftness of the plane’s ascent is an exemplary symbol of transformation. The display of power can inspire us to imagine analogous, decisive shifts in our own lives, to imagine that we, too, might one day surge above much that now looms over us.”

Note: I probably have a higher threshold than most for intellectual/academic, non-fiction books. Please, don’t worry! These books are not like that. Each of these books is smart, but also very readable. Also, affliate links included above.

How to Enter

Just leave a comment by Wednesday, December 15th at 10PM CST, and 3 winners will be chosen randomly from the comments.

What are you waiting for? Enter today!

12/16/2010: I’ve decided to change the rules a little bit, and thankfully since it’s my blog, I can do that! The books are too good not to share with everyone who expressed an interest and a comment. So, the official winners are: Catherine, Bill & Jennifer!!

But, I will also follow up with each of you by email to ensure that one of these wonderful books arrives on your doorstep in time for Christmas! Thanks for reading. I love coming here to write and talk with you about things that matter.

This the first edition of a new series that I’ll be publishing every Friday. The compendium will be a short post chock full of the interesting, inspiring, and unique ideas from across around the web in a particular week. It will cover a range of topics, including some that are simply interesting for interesting’s sake, some tips and tricks for living a good life, and others that are a little deeper… Let me know what you think of it!

So without further ado, interesting ideas from around the web this week:

A Great Quote

“I have come to the frightening conclusion that I am the decisive element. It is my personal approach that creates the climate. It is my daily mood that makes the weather. I possess tremendous power to make life miserable or joyous. I can be a tool of torture or an instrument of inspiration, I can humiliate or humor, hurt or heal. In all situations, it is my response that decides whether a crisis is escalated or de-escalated, and a person is humanized or de-humanized. If we treat people as they are, we make them worse. If we treat people as they ought to be, we help them become what they are capable of becoming.” – Goethe

Found in I Have Zero Tolerance for Self-Inflicted Drama on The Happiness Project

Thoughts on Christmas

Welcoming a Quiet and Sincere Holiday Spirit: “I’ve been thinking about the importance of tradition and ritual lately. My family is in the midst of a several years-long growing pain. The kids haven’t yet had kids, so there are no little ones to fill the holidays with excitement and squeals. But marriage splits Christmas day in half between our nuclear unit and in-laws, siblings spreading out like a melting snowflake on a window pane. We haven’t figured out yet how to make the day work, how to make that midday parting not seem like a downer. We’re working on it.”

35 Gifts Your Children Will Never Forget: “Very few childhood memories actually include the gifts that I received. I distinctly remember the year that I got a blue dirt bike, the evening my brother and I received a Nintendo, and opening socks every year from my grandparents. But other than that, my gift-receiving memories are pretty sparse. Which got me thinking… what type of gifts can we give to our children that they will never forget? What gifts will truly impact their lives and change them forever?”

The Case Against Buying Christmas Presents: Leo writes “Bah humbug! I love Christmas, but the shopping has got to go. Here’s why. Warning: This will be a rant of near-epic proportions.” While it is a rant, I think he strikes a reasonable balance by including some alternatives to the crazy consumption we often unleash at this time of year while still encouraging giving. He also asks some good questions, like “What happens to all the gifts? They go on our shelves, in our closets, on the floor. We already have so much clutter — do we need more? … Why do we want to force clutter on our loved ones, oblige them to find a spot in their already cluttered homes for this gift we’ve given them, so they won’t offend us when we come to visit? Is this obligation really a gift?”

My Approach to Gifts: I’m working hard this year to make sure the gifts I buy are reasonable in expense and don’t add much to my loved one’s clutter! The goal is to give a little something to show that I care and thought of them specifically. Sometimes, it’s easier said than done! If you’re struggling with finding something that fits the bill, you might check out these nontraditional lists:

Or, you might forget the whole thing and just force a unique amaryllis bulb as a gift!

Quality Questions

“Never say more than two sentences, or very rarely three, without waiting for an answer or comment from whoever you’re talking to.” – Phillip Larkin found in Harry Mount on Asking Questions on The School of Life’s blog.

  • Would you dare say the things you say to yourself (in your head) to your closest friend or your child? Would their mood and performance improve if you did? You Are So Stupid
  • What’s your cause? If you were a Miss America contestant and you were asked “What’s your platform?”, what would you say? What cause are you passionate about?
  • Why doesn’t work happen at work? Are you trading your work day for work moments? Why Work Doesn’t Happen At Work
  • Are you a craftsman? Whatever your craft, are you working “to perfect [y]our craft, using every tool at [y]our disposal’? The Craftsman’s Creed

Looking for Little More Inspiration?

Check out the politician who has a history of carefully chosen battles and who is yet again charts his own course against the winds of his party. The 91-year-old Canadian athlete who holds 23 world records and 17 in her current age category, 90 to 95. And, the 27 year old neuroscience PhD student who decided to look at the brain from an entirely new perspective, seeing art in the “sheer beauty of its images.”

Have a wonderful weekend, and I look forward to seeing you back here next week. I have a surprise in store to celebrate the holiday season!

Sincerely,
Angela

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Having planned to embark from DFW airport on Nov. 29th, I should be arriving in Bangalore, India by now. Well, since India is on Indian Standard Time, which is 11 1/2 hours later than CST, actually, I would have arrived there about 24 hours ago, I think!

As you may have guessed, since I’m writing in past tense, I’m not in India.

The first rule of traveling, as every traveler knows,  is to expect the unexpected. It’s not just about the destination, but also about the journey, right?! Whether it’s the screaming child next to you on the plane or forgetting your cell phone in a taxi somewhere, the unexpected can easily disrupt your otherwise well laid plans.

I’d done my initial planning… I considered visiting the beaches of Goa, the backwater inlets of Kerala, and even Kolkata (f.k.a. Calcutta) to the east. But, in the end after my business was done in Bangalore, I had settled on spending a few days seeing New Delhi, experiencing the Taj Mahal in Agra, and the desert state of Rajasthan known for it’s  colorful cities and old India feel.

I’d also paid my $200 to sign up for the American Airlines Platinum Challenge to achieve a higher level of elite status than I’d normally reach with less points (not miles!) than normally required.  10,000 points within 3 months of the challenge, instead of the normal 50,000  points. Since the flight was business class, which converts to higher point values, I would have met the challenge en route and probably with only one leg of the trip completed.

Sadly, in this case, my visa never showed up. It’s stuck in some bureaucratic holding pattern. Still.

As I checked the status of my visa over the last 4 weeks, I’ve been confronted with the screen above, and no update since 11/9/10.  So the flight I purchased (knowing the risk) has been canceled and now the trip is in a holding pattern too.

The company who handles the visa processing for the Indian Consulates says on their website, plain as day:

“Due to the Houston Consulate being inundated with visa requests, processing times for Houston applications is at a MINIMUM OF 3 WEEKS. We strongly advise that tickets should not be purchased until all visas are granted and in your possession.”

If the visa shows up in the next two days, which seems increasingly unlikely, it may still be worth while to make the trip now. If not, then the trip is postponed until the beginning of 2011, subject to scheduling conflicts and my business partner’s visa requirements.  Because the visa processed is designed to avoid personal contact with the individuals seeking visas, there’s no chance of getting an update about when to expect the visa.

Lessons Learned: Plan ahead, check. I did that! Use a visa broker, maybe? They still seem kind of shady to me. Expect the unexpected, definitely.

So, now I wait and create a contingency plan for both the business project and the timing for travel to India…

Update 12/8: I got official word yesterday that my visa had been processed and that my passport with visa would be sent back to me today. Finally!

Note: The Platinum (and Gold) Challenges were one of the many things I learned about when reading The Frequent Flyer Master and Travel Ninja ebook package by Chris Guillebeau. If you’re interested in checking them out, click here (affiliate link). I highly recommend them.

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Hopefully, it will give you a better idea of who I am and what I do than a static resume could, but at a minimum, it will link you to the places I visit and communicate online.

Some highlights about me…

  • I publish a blog called my Cultivated Life. It’s my commitment to continually question and cultivate my approach to life and to focus on living with passion and meaning – i.e. doing the things that really matter rather than simply getting caught up in the ordinary routines of daily life.
  • I work in a non-traditional legal job that’s about half law and half business. I love the creativity on the business side and enjoy working closely with our sales and marketing teams. You can learn more about my professional life here.
  • I spend my leisure time traveling, writing, reading, and learning to garden.

Please say hi and connect with me on Twitter or drop me a line here anytime. I’d love to hear from you!